Experts say that there is no such thing as “safe sex,” because each time you have sex (vaginal, oral, anal), there is the risk of catching a sexually transmitted disease (STD). The only 100% way to be protected is to abstain from having sex.
But why then did the concept of “safe sex”? We will try to identify a few rules that would reduce the risk of sexually transmitted diseases, without prejudice to their sexuality.
Condoms are effective means for protection during sexual intercourse. Here are some tips that will make Your sex life safer and will significantly reduce the chances of transmitting STIs:
Rule 1. Always use condoms, especially if You do not know your sexual partner. Even if You are sure that Your sexual partner has no STDs, you still should use a condom. Some diseases, such as HPV (human papillomavirus) and genital herpes may occur without external symptoms.
Rule 2. Be monogamous in relationships, and limit Your number of sexual partners. The risk of getting STDs increases if You have several non-permanent sexual partners. Every time You have sex with a new partner, You “have sex” with people that came before You. It’s safer to make love with one regular partner who You know well and in which You believe.
Rule 3. Always use lubricant, only water-based, because other lubricants may reduce the elasticity of the condom, as this can tear the condom.
Rule 4. The pill gives good protection from pregnancy but do not protect against STDs. If You are sure that Your partner has no diseases, you can use birth control pills.
Rule 5. Keep your head on your shoulders. If You know or suspect that You have sexually transmitted diseases, you must avoid sexual contact until You get rid of your disease. If You notice your sexual partner symptoms, please refrain from having sex with him, or at least use condoms when having sex.
Rule 6. Be ready always. For making love You should be not only mentally prepared, but also always keep protection. So You can avoid unwanted pregnancies and protect against sexually transmitted diseases.
Rule 7. Always be open and honest with your sexual partner. It is better to discuss with your sexual partner and his past sex life and to choose measures of protection, than to regret his rash act.
