For centuries, people go to war, leave their home countries and overcome all obstacles in the name of love. This feeling compose songs, odes and poems, only love and so many movies in the world.
And although there is nothing stronger than love, but still killing it.
Sadly, today, many strong families are crumbling like sand castles, only because people do not know the true face of the enemies of their feelings and do not have time to defend love against adversity and misunderstandings.
So what can kill love? And how can you protect your home and your heart from unwelcome and brutal killers such bright emotions?
Treason – that is the worst enemy of love.
It its destructive power is much more superior to tsunami, storm and even earthquake. Treason literally knocks the ground from under the feet of a loving human, forcing him to forever change the opinion of someone I loved and idolized. Even if adultery is forgiven and forgotten (which happens rarely), we still trust the loving couple still has not come back ever.
The balance of dependence and freedom is one of the factor that can destroy a romantic relationship.
It can be compared to a balance, where the slightest way out of balance threatens the destruction of family happiness. The strong dependence of the partners to each other, as well as the extreme degree of liberty is not a benefit of love, slowly turning it either into fierce cat, or a slutty guest.
Another killer is past.
It is each person, but sometimes people live so much their past that every day lose now, and with it love. Past mistakes, past Hobbies and likes can temporarily blind man, taking his real real feelings.
Too hasty forcing events are also rarely helpful in love.
Today, people are trying to live just one day that sometimes completely takes away the taste of the most bright emotions. Quick sex on the first date, the rapid movement of one lover to another, and other sudden decisions leave no Platonic feelings, no chance. A love based only on passion, lives very little.
Few people know, but friendship is also kills love.
An error of judgment that spouses should be more friends than lovers, now there is not in the same family. But it is the high level of comfort lovers and forces them over time to feel boredom and indifference to one another. Love must be something unsaid and mysterious, otherwise it loses its true charm and appeal.
Next on the list of detractors sacred feelings settled bad habits.
And here we are talking not just about Smoking or food for the night. Each person throughout life, formed their own “bad” habits that are not always admirable partner. Someone does not like socks, neatly laid out the night on the battery or the fireplace, and someone is frightened of the green mask on the face of a spouse who has become a kind of ritual for the night.
The difference of priorities and values in life is another killer of family happiness, which, from the first day of living together, but still significantly quickly destroys the strong and, it seemed even the perfect unions.
People just need to have common ground, or they pretty soon there won’t be anything to even talk.
And completing the chain of harmful phenomena strangers.
It can be not only unfamiliar neighbors in the stairwell. Sometimes even the closest relatives and parents can significantly harm romantic relationships. Therefore, any couple should have their own family nest, where you will have the opportunity to be alone with your loved one.
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